Tuesday, October 31 2017
Russ The Ostomistic Husband and I just got home from a last minute trip away to Newcastle (2 hrs north of Sydney), which is approx 6 hours south from here if you get a good run of traffic, which thankfully it was a good trip. But.... although it has been refreshing for my soul and spirits, I am absolutley buggered and finding even 2 hours in the car to be taxing on my body (let alone 6 hours).
Regardless of how much pain I am in right now, it was still worth the quality time spent with Russ yesterday.
Russ needed to go down for training for work, as he had to be there at 9am this morning I suggested we head down and stay the night to avoid him leaving at 3am and driving all day then working and driving all afternoon home... being a P plater I have total faith in his driving but I just thought it is a long way to go on his own, so I tagged along too.
It was Russ' days off work on Sunday and Monday anyway, so we thought we might as well head down Sunday to get the driving done with so we could spend together all day yesterday, which was exactly what we both needed.
There were things in Newcastle that we wanted to do and were on our bucket list (we do hope to come down next year to do part #2), while we didn't get to experiencing everything we still had fun - he always knows how to make me laugh.
Russ thanked me for yesterday (while we were at the hotel last night and again today on the journey home): he said it was nice to just have a day where we could just spend time together without the unfriendly reminders of our reality or our lives back home, that for one day, we were just a normal married couple madly in love and hanging out.
There is a hotel I have stayed in before that is called The Lucky Hotel, it is this boutique hotel on top of a pub, but it is sooo luxe. Think marble tiles in the bathroom, stone vanity, nice roomy shower... and each room has a different quote about luck. They've won all of these awards and despite us being only on the floor above the pub we couldn't hear anything - there was even a wedding on too!
Did I mention it is totes affordable? It was $159 and $179 for our stay, compared to another hotel we were looking at which was around $300 a night by the time you added in brekky and valet parking. We essentially could spend 2 nights at the hotel instead of the 1 we had budgeted for at the fancier hotel.
It was the only reason we could afford 2 nights away last minute.
So we left the hotel and headed to brunch, there is this Star Wars themed restaurant 'The Empire Coffee Co' which we had wanted to go to for a while now, Russ looked like a kid in a candy store! He was taking selfies with the lifesized statues and was putting nerdy snapchats up about star wars and coffee. I knew he would love the cafe. The food was delicious too!
We had planned after brunch to go for a nice long stroll up the wharf and around the harbour, even going to explore the headland too. But walking from the car to the cafe wasn't very pleasant, it was 35'C and very windy with a dry hot heat.
So we decided to postpone the walk until part 2 of our Newcastle bucketlisting trip next year once the weather cooled down and instead headed to Kotara shopping centre to enjoy the aircon.
We have both been wanting to see Thor: Ragnarok and found they had a Gold Class deal for extra $5 above a normal ticket we could sit in the comfy recliners and enjoy the movie reclined. This was the second time I experienced Gold Class, the first was earlier this year in March when we saw Beauty and the Beast. I do like putting my feet up, they were incredibly sore and puffy by that point and the heat wasn't helping, so it helped a lot to have some relief.
We don't have a Gold Class cinema close by, or one that I can go and enjoy in my wheelchair, so the movies is something I can only do when we go to the bigger cities and it feels like a reward somehow for good behaviour, so we don't get much of a chance to go to the movies together (on a date) so we love when we can. I do wish it were closer, I am excited for all the movies coming out I would like to see them as they are in the cinemas not when they're available on DVD. But, at least it is a lovely luxury to enjoy when we go away.
The movie was really good, there is a lot of humour in it which is unexpexted for an action movie, I quite liked it. Who am I kidding, how could you not enjoy Thor without a shirt on amiright?
I stopped at the Christmas trees that were all lit up and looked beautiful. I love Christmas and I love going places and admiring their trees, if I could manage to put the tree up on my own I would. I just feel so happy this time of year, it feels a little bit of magic is in the air.
Next on our agenda was the most excitement I had felt in a long time!
... I got to hold a $183k pink Argyll Diamond in one hand and a $93k pink Argyll diamond in the other! My heart was racing and Russ said I had the biggest grin on my face!
I have had it on my bucket-list to see an Argyll pink diamond, thinking in order to see this rare and exquisite gem I would need to head over to WA to the Kimberley region and knowing that travel that far is highly unlikely (when I struggle making it 6-8 hours) that I wouldn't get to see one.
So... imagine my delight when I see this sign saying "exclusively for today only we have the Argyll Pink diamonds in store".
I squealed with delight and Russ wheeled me in to the store.
I was even more excited when I got to try on and hold the jewellery! .... and then holding the precious diamonds was unreal and I am even smiling right now just something I had always wanted to see for myself. I wasn't prepared for it to be in Newcastle.
When I heard in 2011 that the WA mine was shutting in 2020 and that there wouldn't be anymore of these precious diamonds I always said if I won lotto I would buy myself something as an investment as the price will increase after 2020... the WA mine produces 90% of the worlds total Pink Diamonds!
I am still working on my million dollar idea, but the sparkle on the ring was stunning. The ring I admired was worth around $43k, the earrings were $60k, then there were the gems on their own.
It was just a good day yesterday, just Russ and I spending quality time together and yesterday I felt my spirits were more energised (even though my body is tired) it was nice feeling excited again. I do find when I can find the chance to live and enjoy life, I feel happiness and have adrenalin... living life is my own version of thrill seeking in a weird but magical way.